I feel you didn't understand the question I am asking.
What type of switch then do I need to do what I am wanting? Again, this is what I want the switch to do-
a lighted switch (two little tiny lights) that is ON-OFF-ON to do the following
a) in the first "ON" position, turn the aftermarket back-up lights on when I put the truck in reverse.
b) in the "OFF" position, the aftermarket back-up lights don't come on at all- no matter what. When in this position, I don't want any of the lights on the lighted switch to be on.
c) in the second "ON" position, I can turn the aftermarket lights on whenever I want them on. Doesn't matter if the truck is running or not and I'm not in reverse.
Thanks!